Bad Movie Date

I took a girl out to a movie recently. I like movies, she likes me, I can’t drive, so it’s a win-win for everybody.

Now, before I hit her up, I did consider trying to find a movie that she’d like. But then I thought, “Why? I’m the one that wants to go. If she takes me to a movie, then she can pick.” So we went to a basic action movie. And about 30 minutes into it, after some particular kung fu versus mythical monster awesomeness, she looks over at me, and says, “What, are you making me watch?!” That would be a question hinted at with a huge WTF!? at the end.

I could have tried to placate her, tell her I’ll pick something better next time, or some other beta bullshit, but no. Not my style. I just grab her leg, and say with a shit eating grin on my face, “Something awesome.” Because she doesn’t have to enjoy the movie, she just has to enjoy me enjoying the movie. Which she does, and then she tells me how awesome the movie was when it’s over, with a genuine smile on her face.

I’ll go to a chick flick with a girl if she really wants me to, but something early like this will be my movie and my choice, because I’m looking for a woman that will grind out something she doesn’t enjoy to make her man happy, and if she won’t, I want to know to next her as soon as possible. Guy movies are great way to do this.

Save a Beta, Buy a Hooker

So in America, there’s this obsession with strip clubs. Men want to blow their money on women just to get teased. Seriously, they’re that devoid of human contact that they’ll give money to a woman for merely dancing in front of them, and maybe a little more if she gives him just a little bit of human contact.

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This is why the price of pussy is so inflated here, or as a stripper ex girlfriend put it,

“I have to live in the U.S. to strip or else I’d have to be a whore. Men in the rest of the world won’t settle for less than fucking.”

If you’re going to blow your wad on a woman just because she’s a woman, then make sure you blow your wad.

I know there’s this big anti-whore contingency in the man spoken area of the internet, but paying for a stripper instead of a whore is like going to the gym to lift arms every day. If you’re going to do it, do it like a man. Strippers are just whores who don’t have to give up the goodies because their customers are weak.

Man up, wrap your shit, and understand the true economics of pussy. The only reason women are half ok with strip clubs is because it keeps the price of pussy high by elevating demand and draining the resources of betas.

As xsplat says,

Women know their value. They know they can trade their value for their benefit.

You should know this, too. Game is important, but if you’re going the economic route, don’t overpay.

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The Charisma Myth

I’ve started reading The Charisma Myth. One of the early statements that has stood out is this:

Because what’s in your mind shows up in your body and because people will catch even the briefest microexpression, to be effective, charismatic behaviors must originate in your mind.

This has resonated with some of my recent personal experiments in human interaction, where I basically just fuck with people as subtly as possible.

What I’ve been doing is trying to determine who really enjoys seeing me, and who doesn’t. So I have tried to keep my face as neutral as possible when I see people, which has given me a whole lot of nothing in response. Literally, for most people, if I don’t open them, they’re quiet.

Now, the me of my youth would have assumed they just didn’t want to be bothered. But, older, and wiser me has a plethora of past behavior, and most people that I enjoy seeing truly enjoy seeing me. But, because of my physical and emotional presence, most everyone else is waiting for my emotional state to play off of, and when they don’t get that, they don’t really know what to do.

It seems like this is a big sticking point for all the text monkeys that seem to be spreading disease like through the land, they keep waiting on other people to make a move. If you’re dominant, which you should be as a man, you’ll be waiting a long time. You have to bring the charisma with you, because most people just don’t have it. Especially women, who tend toward responsive desire. They’re waiting for you to bring it to their world.

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Police Protect Your Women, Not You

From Alpha Game:

If a woman physically attacks you in a manner that indicates her serious intent to harm you, then you beat the living shit out of her. Beat her so badly, so painfully, that she fears for her life. 

Afterwards, calmly explain to her that if she calls the police or tries to press charges after she attacked you and forced you to defend yourself, you’ll simply do your 30 days or whatever and then you’ll come back and do it again. Only this time, you won’t be merely defending yourself. You’ll be looking for payback, and payback is a serious bitch. And remind her that the police won’t be there until after the fact. 

She’ll believe you. Remember, first and foremost, women are creatures of fear. Because they are so fearful, they have created a system where men are arrested and punished and lose access to their children even when they are attacked, even when they don’t defend themselves. The object is to make her understand that simple fact that the vast edifice of the police and the legal system are totally incapable of protecting her. Which, as it happens, is completely true.

It’s better to be feared then loved.

Love helps out women and children who can’t help themselves.

Fear helps the man who is thrown out to the wolves, which is what we’ve done to men in today’s society.

My relationships have ended better than most, because once a woman stops loving you, fear is all you can give her to protect yourself.

Women That Want Kids…

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Should start considering their options at a very young age. If you go to college, not only will you be in desert of worthwhile men, which leads to getting pumped and dumped, and decreases your chance of a successful marriage, but you’ll have wasted four or more years of your pretty for $26,000 in debt and shit job prospects to pay it back.

Seriously, think that over. If you want kids, your best years will fly by way faster than any man’s will. But, you do get the pussy pass, so make the most of it.

If you want to find a man that can provide for you to do what most women want to do anyways, figure out where these men are, and get a job close to them, like a waitress. Women around military bases have known this for years, but it works just as well around hospitals, investment banks, software companies, etc. Figure out what man you want, and then it’s location, location, location (plus, don’t be fat and have long hair).

Being a waitress helps you develop and keep the same skills that most men find attractive, which is who you’re probably trying to attract, rather than your women competition, who just want to steal your man anyways.

Your career isn’t really important to a man. If you truly enjoy doing something like math or engineering, go for it, but don’t think that it’s going to raise your sexual market value.

And men, don’t hamstring your daughters and sisters like an overbearing single mom beating her son into blue pill submission. Don’t infantilize your women because you can’t deal with them finding another man more important than you.

Raise your girls to be women. Prepare them properly to face the world, and find the life they’re looking for. Your daughter will find a man that attracts her, your job is to make sure that man will take care of her.

Protect Your Women

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Life is not just about the woma(e)n you’re with. It’s about all the women in your life, especially your family. It seems like a lot of ‘sphere writers have issues with their mothers and sisters, kind of like strippers with daddy.

A mother will bitch to her thirty plus your old son about getting some grandkids, like damn near every mother does, and he’ll get all butthurt about how his mom just can’t understand him. No shit. You’re the product of over four billion years of successful grandkids, deal with your mom wanting some.

Same thing with sisters. Guys will talk about some passive aggressive bullshit they pulled on their sister to “win” some pointless argument. Get over it. All women shit test, including family, especially if you started out on the wrong side of alpha, and are just now lifting yourself up.

But they’re still your family. They’re still your responsibility. Either your women are worthless, and you cut them out of your life completely, or you make them better every time you interact with them. Do you logically convince a woman to sleep with you? No. You don’t logically make your family better, either. You lead them.

A man has to be strong enough to protect his women from all dangers. This is where white knights get it wrong, they only try to protect a woman from other men. A woman needs a man that will protect her from herself just as much as she needs protection from other men. This starts with your family. Understand them, lead them, and you’ll have the skills to bring the women you want to keep into your life.

Don’t Waste Your Money

stripper-moneyMost guys spouting off on the internet will tell you to get some passive income, by making money online or writing an e-book. I realize that’s pretty ambitious for most of you all, so let’s start with baby steps.

Just don’t waste your fucking money.

Basically, don’t buy stuff that depreciates. Most of you are like me, and work for somebody else. It has its ups and downs, but don’t bust your ass to give some cocktease your money, and pony up all those hours to suck on Steve Jobs’s cock like a meth head looking for a score.

Spend your money in a way that doesn’t just make it disappear. Personally, I invest in stocks (I don’t trade stocks. There’s a difference). I do this because it combines two of my favorite things, reading and basic math. Now, I may or may not have had many nerd hobbies as a kid that combined these things, but, all those things cost money that you don’t get back, plus, it’s hard to get paid when you win.

Enter the stock market. Even if I lose twenty percent of what I invest (which has happened occasionally) I’m still left with eighty percent of my money, which isn’t bad considering the hours of entertainment I’ve had, plus the fact that studying real world shit every day makes me that much smarter. And I may have perused every single 10-K for a year while I lived in somewhat primitive conditions. This definitely helped make me smarter.

But, you don’t even have to invest in stocks. Spend your money on guns, land, broken down sail boats that you can fix, a pile of wood and a hand saw, anything that you can either add value to, or that’s so damn useful to every one that it will always have some value. This includes gold, because women love shiny shit. Men may value gold at higher or lower prices depending on the weather, but shiny shit always serves a purpose.

Fuck people that spend money they don’t have to impress people they don’t like. If these people are influencing you to waste money in the same manner, find new people. And blog about it.