Alright, so sex is fun. But, it’s fun for a purpose. And the purpose of sex is not to have fun, it’s to have babies. Sex is fun so that you’ll have more sex which hopefully leads to more babies. Having sex to make babies isn’t high on the priority list of a lot of people anymore. So, instead of having real sex, that is sex that you’re fine with leading to a baby, people have junky sex.
Junky sex is sex with no purpose other than sex. Like a junky drug addict gets high for no other purpose than to get high. It’s not a steroid user trying to get better at sports, or a some office worker downing coffee to make it through the day. It just a pointless rush of endorphins, just so you can tell other people you had a rush of endorphins.
A man might as well cut off his balls, if all he’s going for is junky sex. It doesn’t matter how many women you sleep with, if you’re not using your manhood for its purpose, what’s the point?
Don’t get me wrong, I still have sex. Even though I don’t necessarily want a kid right now, I’ll accept that outcome for any girl I fuck. I’m just a little more selective. But I’m not making it a lifestyle. It’s not all about my next hit. I have sex like I drink, with who I want, when I want. Junky sex is like an alcoholic trying to get drunk. You’re just trying to get someone to give you free shots because you’re poor, or you live for the “game,” or you just got something up your ass trying to get one over on the bar.
I still respect game, just not pointless game. If my wallet could cash the checks my dick can write, you better believe I’d be out there hitting it up every night. But, it can’t. And, sex with condoms just blows. It’s like getting a back massage through a fur coat. You could, but why?