Getting arrested matters for your career. It effects your community status and the ways you can earn income. But barring a long prison term, it really doesn’t effect the woman in your life. She might not like it, but she will still be attracted to you, if not more attracted much of the time. Just get arrested like a man, don’t bitch, don’t whine, and don’t let the police get to you.
“We knew that we were going to be split up once we got to Central Booking,” Creque said of why she and the man kissed as they were being arrested. “I was just the look-out,” she said. “We had a crazy romance all summer. It is like a movie.”