So, Klink1 wanted to know more about the Child Support Test I mentioned awhile back. It’s my baseline criteria for sleeping with a woman. I’m not sure of the legalities in most countries, but in the U.S., if you have a child with a woman, and she can prove that it’s yours, then you owe her child support for 18 years, until that child becomes an adult.
Well, my personal goal is to have kids, and I hate having sex with condoms, so the chance of me having kids when I have sex is fairly high. I know I’m shooting live bullets, for various reasons. I’m not a big believer in waiting until marriage — or really, more than three meetups — to have sex, either.
So, I use the The Child Support Test. I’ve slept with enough women, been in relationships with enough woman, and have enough married and divorced friends, to get a good handle on the relationship qualities of a woman fairly quickly. Basically, I have to be able to deduce that if she gets pregnant, and a relationship with her doesn’t pan out, what kind of mom would she be to a kid who’s parents are separated.
Because over half of all marriages don’t work out, and I’m not going to wait that long to have sex, so I have to take into account what happens in the case of failure. And if I wouldn’t want to pay her child support for 18 years, because I think she’d be a bad mom or a short sighted gold digger, then I won’t sleep with her.
Her level of hotness is factored into this, but does not change anything to do with the bad mom/gold digger issues. What it does have to deal with, is that if she is beautiful, and maintains a lifestyle of proper diet and exercise, then I’m more likely to sleep with her even if I may have doubts about our relationship panning out. Because a beautiful woman is much more likely to attract a second (or third, or fourth, etc.) man to provide for her, and any kids I might have had with her. She still has to come off as good mom, far sighted about money woman, though.
The Child Support Test is how I account for possible failure. I want to have kids, and I want to raise them as their father while living with their mother, because I believe that is by far the best home life a child can have. But shit happens, so I want to be prepared.